You catch her eye from across the room. Now what? "Playing games wastes everyone's time," says Nikki Hayia, sex editor at Men's Health Greece. "Women prefer a man who knows what he wants, especially if what he wants is us."
Use body positioning to advertise your confidence, suggests Helen Fisher, a research professor in the anthropology department at Rutgers University, in New Jersey. If you're sitting, keep an open position—legs apart, head up, chest out, back straight. If you're standing, position your shoulders toward her while turning your head toward your conversational partner.
Mirror her actions to signal your attention—when she drinks, you drink. When she changes her body position, so do you. If you see that you and she are moving in tandem, to a beat, then it's time to make your move. "I know whether I'm attracted to you, so I don't need a pickup line," says Sara, a 28-year-old bartender in South Africa. "Just introduce yourself."
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