The World's Best Sex Tips (Part 4)-Seduce Her Early and Often

Foreplay is like an investment. Start early—way before her clothes come off—and you'll reap greater rewards. "The longer we wait, the better our orgasm," says Spurr.

Begin your wooing when she's unattainable—you're both at work; she's stuck in traffic; her father just asked you to pass the salt. "It could be a sexy e-mail or a voice mail or just a smile," says Birgit Ehrenberg, a sex columnist in Germany. "The important thing is that you're building the tension."

Once you're together, pay attention to the details. "Instead of making a beeline for her breasts, try tugging on her hair while you kiss her, exhaling near her ear, or just gently kissing her eyelids," says Caroline Hurry, a sex writer in South Africa. "For women, a combination of boldness and tenderness is crucial."

The World's Best Sex Tips (Part 2)- Make It Easy for Her.

You catch her eye from across the room. Now what? "Playing games wastes everyone's time," says Nikki Hayia, sex editor at Men's Health Greece. "Women prefer a man who knows what he wants, especially if what he wants is us."

Use body positioning to advertise your confidence, suggests Helen Fisher, a research professor in the anthropology department at Rutgers University, in New Jersey. If you're sitting, keep an open position—legs apart, head up, chest out, back straight. If you're standing, position your shoulders toward her while turning your head toward your conversational partner.

Mirror her actions to signal your attention—when she drinks, you drink. When she changes her body position, so do you. If you see that you and she are moving in tandem, to a beat, then it's time to make your move. "I know whether I'm attracted to you, so I don't need a pickup line," says Sara, a 28-year-old bartender in South Africa. "Just introduce yourself."

The World's Best Sex Tips (Part 1)- overview

When it comes to wooing women, men aren't perfect. But perhaps guys are more selfless than their rep suggests.

Men's Health asked readers from all 35 international editions—our largest global survey ever—what sexual skills they'd most like to improve. The most common answers: seducing a woman more effectively and bringing her to orgasm every time.

Of course, there's another way to read this. It could be that men from Argentina to Ukraine simply realize that our pleasure rises and falls with hers—that by stoking her fires, they'll have hotter sex more often.

To that end, we interviewed hundreds of women and sex experts from around the globe. The result is what follows: an expert lesson in the universal language of lust.