Nearly 30 percent of the men we surveyed wish they were better—and quicker—at seducing women. Here's the secret: Because arousal has a cumulative effect, try to engage at least three of her senses at a time. As Marta, a 27-year-old Italian lawyer told us, "It takes time and lots of ingredients—smells, tastes, sounds—to heat us up."
The next time you're near a mirror, pull her close and let her have the full view as you kiss her neck and caress her body, suggests Sonia Parreira Duque, a clinical psychologist in Lisbon. "Or play her favorite record, spritz her favorite fragrance around the bedroom, and leave some small pieces of fruit and chocolate beside the bed."
One no-fail move: Give her the spa treatment. "Choose a fragrant shampoo and swirl your fingertips around her scalp with the warm, sudsy water," says Spurr. "The massage and fragrance will help her relax, unleashing oxytocin, a feel-good hormone that promotes emotional bonding." Next step: physical bonding
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